Internet - back in childhood

Life web

Unlikely to find a man who can deny that the Internet is one of the most significant achievements of scientific and technical progress for the last 100 years. And not only in terms of ease of communication technology. It also serves as a study of psychotherapist - web people share such things would not dare to talk to friends.
Here we have the various perversions of sexual burdened people, though none are missing. It's about ordinary people psychologically adequate.
How is the hard daily life of an average citizen in 45 years in the years before the advent of the global network in every home? Work, family, rare outings with friends (as a rule - the same age and of the same social status). How is it now? Work is work, but after that? Time is divided between forums, chats and social networks where communicating with different people. And it does not matter who it is - an engineer, banker, doctor, mechanic ... 45 year old character we communicate with the 78 year old professor and a 17 year old student on the basis of common interests. What? Whatever - collect stamps, kept pigeons, like Woody Allen ... Unlikely in real life you encounter such a triad. And the virtual has it!

Internet overwhelm territorial boundaries and breaks down barriers between people.

Afraid to knock on the door of the boss, but the social networking add it to your friends. This does not mean that your job relationships will change. No. Nothing will stop you to sign the notice of reduction in the state.
Another aspect: the earlier marital change were slightly problematic - to find the right partner for flirting, I had to sort of "otskubnesh" by half, to find "ground" to hide and knit conspiracies. If the novel is written in the workplace, colleagues soon-wishers will bring it to the knowledge of the victim's husband.
Internet ease, and this - the story of the chat can be deleted so that the neighbor on the desk could not understand that you exchange love emoticons with new and very nice manager "Sales". If you want more, you can practice and "virtual sex" while your husband thinks you check reductions in e-shops.
Many people have a completely satisfying real connection, and along with it support several virtual ones, treating them as an outlet and entertainment. It would be nice and the other side to have the same attitude. And if one side of the network is happily married lover of virtual novels, and on the other - a lonely young woman, entrusting this relationship much hope? Vain psychologists advise not rush in depth virtual relationships as you like the other person before you convince yourself that it is He / She.

The relative anonymity of the Internet creates conditions for sharing and openness.

Hardly have spoken first meet for your passions, dreams and disappointments ... But in the net but otherwise there may come across a page long with cacti and happen to know that they actually thrive in the apartment above you, "27 years old, single, loves romantic movies, the music of Handel and swimming" is your ex classmate who 10 years ago loved the same things.
A blog where people record their thoughts and impressions, and then other people read them and comment? Usually the records are kept on paper, are not shown to anyone. A virtual diary is brought to light, although the degree of openness should be the same ...
It is quite possible to come across a blog of a demanding boss and find out that she is a person: grown playful cat, telling funny stories about their children and make gorgeous cakes.

Why do we need this spiritual striptease?

Maybe it is rooted in childhood. Remember how every new friend told from start to finish for Mom, Dad, brother, dog-fish, how share your favorite toys and books.
Whatever the age or social mask can sleeved, in human remains need to be understood. Our most intimate desire is for someone to look into our soul and accept us as we are. Besides, even if it does remotely - with eyes flickered across the computer screen ...